OKAY it is time to admit it.
I don't keep up with my flist very well at its current size! So I have not been friending people back. It's nothing personal, my flist is just of sufficient size, and I don't want it to get much bigger. So, pretty much, I am friends-only without a lot of friending-back happening. If I know you from RL or somewhere, leave a comment with who you are/where we've met and I will do my best.
You can get my all my fanfic at longsufferingly.